Why does success make me more anxious, not less?
Success that increases anxiety instead of relieving it is a strong signal. It usually means the success is touching a sentence the person has been running on for a long time. The anxiety is not a glitch. It is the sentence doing what the sentence does.
A few common sentences underneath:
I am only valuable if I am still proving it.
I am only safe if I am the one in control.
I am only worth keeping around if I keep producing.
If any of those sentences is running underneath, success does not register as success. It registers as more weight. More to maintain. More that could be taken away.
The work is not to manage the anxiety. The work is to find and name the sentence the anxiety is reporting on. Once the sentence is visible, the anxiety has somewhere else to go.
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